Social Networking Drama
Okay, If I don't say anything about it nobody will! Whether it be Facebook, Twitter, or Myspace (which is pretty much obsolete now) I somehow have always come across some type of "drama" that can include anything from arguing, humiliation of photos and personal information, subliminal statuses or tweets, and many other petty instances that should not go on through social networking sites. I, for one, am sick and tired of looking at the bullshit! I mean how old are we now? I mean I'm 21 years old, and everyone that I know or associate with are either of age or older so therefore.......................STOP IIIIIIT!!!!!!!!!!!!! Grow up and get over it! If you all are "beefing" because some female has your "man" then he was never really your "man" to begin with (remember that) ladies. Also, if you all don't like each other why even follow each other or befriend each other on these sites???? To me that means that you want everyone in the whole world to know your business and that you don't like that person for whatever reason to keep up a bunch of drama. Furthermore, African American females especially need to STOP degrading themselves in this way because I see this occurring to them the most! We were not born nor made to argue and fight with each other, throwing hate and slanderous evil towards one another! We were born as Kings & Queens so we should treat each other with nothing but respect and honor and continue to uplift each other. I know it seems as though I'm asking for a lot, that may sound like a huge feat to accomplish but I have total and complete faith that that can happen. However, I also believe it starts with the internet (sad to say)! We consume so much of our time on here that there's nothing but negativity waiting if you aren't occupying it wisely. In addition, if you are keeping up this drama because of other things, such as hating on someone because you want what they have (or just for the sake of hating)...get the hell off your ass and go and do something about it! Then again you shouldn't want something just because someone else has it to begin with, you should want it because of your own personal desire. So if you are that person, male or female, that is keeping up Facebook and Twitter drama just because.............................................then get a fuckin' LIFE! Go to school, go read a book, get a job, chances are you have some kids to raise, hell just go and do SOMETHING productive with your life instead of trying to cause extra bullshit in someone else's life! Let people enjoy their life!! Life is already hard and short enough as it is, why add to the hardship?? What makes this so much more worse is that it ends up turning into heated arguments, reciprocated exploitation then.....life gets real and shit gets personal ! Then people are ready to fight! Smh. My thing is, why let it even get to that point? No matter WHAT you're fighting over! And if you ARE gonna let it get to that point, stop selling them wolf tickets and do what you gon do instead of huffin' and puffin' for Twitter and Facebook! And especially if you claim to have fought with them before and "know where they stay" and all of that. If that's the case, in the words of the late great Bernie Mac.....BUST A MOVE THEN! Point. Black. Period. But I'm just tired of it all and in my book that's how you get blocked, unfollowed, unfriended and the whole nine! No one wants to see, hear or read that shit! I'm beyond annoyed and tired of seeing it and it's time to make a CHANGE! Moral of the story is, remember and never lose sight of what social networks are for: To connect and network with others around you to build and continue to strengthen relationships while sharing random, and at times, useful information. Nothing more, nothing less. Anything other than that, is irrelevant. And if you take offense to this, oh well, chances are YOU'RE probably the one causing or partaking in the drama and I hope that you can take something from this and mature yourself and stop all of this.
Power.
Okay, If I don't say anything about it nobody will! Whether it be Facebook, Twitter, or Myspace (which is pretty much obsolete now) I somehow have always come across some type of "drama" that can include anything from arguing, humiliation of photos and personal information, subliminal statuses or tweets, and many other petty instances that should not go on through social networking sites. I, for one, am sick and tired of looking at the bullshit! I mean how old are we now? I mean I'm 21 years old, and everyone that I know or associate with are either of age or older so therefore.......................STOP IIIIIIT!!!!!!!!!!!!! Grow up and get over it! If you all are "beefing" because some female has your "man" then he was never really your "man" to begin with (remember that) ladies. Also, if you all don't like each other why even follow each other or befriend each other on these sites???? To me that means that you want everyone in the whole world to know your business and that you don't like that person for whatever reason to keep up a bunch of drama. Furthermore, African American females especially need to STOP degrading themselves in this way because I see this occurring to them the most! We were not born nor made to argue and fight with each other, throwing hate and slanderous evil towards one another! We were born as Kings & Queens so we should treat each other with nothing but respect and honor and continue to uplift each other. I know it seems as though I'm asking for a lot, that may sound like a huge feat to accomplish but I have total and complete faith that that can happen. However, I also believe it starts with the internet (sad to say)! We consume so much of our time on here that there's nothing but negativity waiting if you aren't occupying it wisely. In addition, if you are keeping up this drama because of other things, such as hating on someone because you want what they have (or just for the sake of hating)...get the hell off your ass and go and do something about it! Then again you shouldn't want something just because someone else has it to begin with, you should want it because of your own personal desire. So if you are that person, male or female, that is keeping up Facebook and Twitter drama just because.............................................then get a fuckin' LIFE! Go to school, go read a book, get a job, chances are you have some kids to raise, hell just go and do SOMETHING productive with your life instead of trying to cause extra bullshit in someone else's life! Let people enjoy their life!! Life is already hard and short enough as it is, why add to the hardship?? What makes this so much more worse is that it ends up turning into heated arguments, reciprocated exploitation then.....life gets real and shit gets personal ! Then people are ready to fight! Smh. My thing is, why let it even get to that point? No matter WHAT you're fighting over! And if you ARE gonna let it get to that point, stop selling them wolf tickets and do what you gon do instead of huffin' and puffin' for Twitter and Facebook! And especially if you claim to have fought with them before and "know where they stay" and all of that. If that's the case, in the words of the late great Bernie Mac.....BUST A MOVE THEN! Point. Black. Period. But I'm just tired of it all and in my book that's how you get blocked, unfollowed, unfriended and the whole nine! No one wants to see, hear or read that shit! I'm beyond annoyed and tired of seeing it and it's time to make a CHANGE! Moral of the story is, remember and never lose sight of what social networks are for: To connect and network with others around you to build and continue to strengthen relationships while sharing random, and at times, useful information. Nothing more, nothing less. Anything other than that, is irrelevant. And if you take offense to this, oh well, chances are YOU'RE probably the one causing or partaking in the drama and I hope that you can take something from this and mature yourself and stop all of this.
Power.
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